Things We've Learned - #5: "Helping" Has Many Meanings

Once walking is mastered, the capability of a child helping with things greatly improves. Whether the help is requested or Eliana takes some initiative, the "helping" has turned into lengthier tasks, altered tasks, or different than anticipated outcomes. Eliana is learning so much - developing a servant's heart, discerning tasks (when, how, why, etc.), following directions, fine-tuning coordination, taking initiative (Ryan, isn't there a Patch the Pirate song about this?), and even discovering how to work with others. This list just scratches the surface of all that can be learned by helping.

Eliana really notices, particularly in her toddler class at church, when someone needs help. She might pick up a cup or crayon, comfort a crying friend, or pick up toys. If Eliana is around a baby, watch out! She LOVES to take care of babies - bring bottles, pacifiers, blankets, toys, etc. At home, Eliana helps with the laundry and cleaning out the dishwasher each week, though there are bunches of things she volunteers to do daily. Eliana even notices when others are helpful to us and usually comments, "That was nice." What a blessing it is to watch Eliana in action and be able to teach her through words and show her through actions how to minister to the needs of others.

So while Eliana is learning so many things by helping, we are learning to work on our PATIENCE! :o)

She'd rather eat the groceries!

The labels had to come off before putting the water away.

Helping daddy put together the rails for her big girl bed.

Helping daddy take her crib apart.

At least now, helping in the kitchen has developed 

into more than just eating chocolate chips!